In a world that is constantly changing and facing numerous challenges, the resurgence of Divine Feminine energy holds great significance. Renowned authority Dr. Chopra explores the transformative power of this energy, which helps shift us away from predatory male energy towards qualities like empathy and cooperation – qualities essential for addressing global issues. This interview delves into harnessing the Divine Feminine’s attributes in leadership, examining the seven Goddess archetypes and empowering women with diverse talents to collectively drive positive change. Drawing inspiration from luminaries such as Oprah Winfrey, Dr. Chopra highlights the importance of self-reflection in achieving success while navigating multifaceted roles. Ultimately, it presents a compelling vision of a harmonious and inclusive world where financial well-being aligns with personal values and passions.
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Can you please share your insight on the current rise of the divine feminine energy and why it is considered to be of great importance in our world today?
The rise of the Divine Feminine is significant because it represents a shift away from the dominant, predatory male energy that has shaped our history. This shift is essential as we face numerous global challenges, including climate change, violence, and more. The Divine Feminine embodies qualities like nurturing, empathy, and cooperation, which are necessary for our survival and a more harmonious world.
In the context of leadership, how can the qualities and principles associated with the Divine Feminine be harnessed and utilized in a positive and effective manner to inspire and guide individuals and organizations towards a more harmonious and inclusive future?
Effective leadership can be achieved by embracing the acronym “LEADERS”: Look and listen deeply, develop emotional intelligence and empathy, cultivate awareness, set smart goals, empower oneself and others, take responsibility, and create synchronicity. These principles, when applied, lead to a more harmonious and inclusive future by promoting empathy, compassion, and collective empowerment.
Would you please share and explain the concept of the seven Goddess archetypes and offer guidance on how those here can access and embody these archetypes in their lives for personal growth and empowerment?
The seven Goddess archetypes represent different facets of the Divine Feminine. They are:
Hera (leader),
Mother (nurturer),
Athena (wisdom and culture),
Aphrodite (love and creativity),
Artemis (nature and conservation),
Persephone (healer and alchemist),
and Hestia (homemaker).
It’s possible to relate to multiple archetypes, but identifying your major strengths is key. By recognizing your dominant archetypes, you can align with your true self and find people who complement your strengths to create a harmonious balance.
For women who feel a strong connection to multiple archetypes and possess diverse talents, how can they navigate their journey effectively while embracing their multifaceted nature?
Women with diverse talents and connections to multiple archetypes should focus on their major strengths while appreciating their multifaceted nature. By identifying and prioritizing their dominant archetypes, they can lead more effectively and seek collaboration with others who complement their skills. This way, they can navigate their journey with balance and purpose, using their various talents to create a harmonious and fulfilling life.
How can women harness their multifaceted talents and archetypes to contribute positively to their communities and the world as a whole?
Women can harness their multifaceted talents and archetypes to make positive contributions by recognizing their unique strengths and finding alignment with their passions. They should collaborate with others who have complementary skills to address community and global challenges. By embracing their diverse talents and archetypes, women can create a more inclusive, compassionate, and harmonious world.
In a world where women often juggle various roles and responsibilities, what advice do you have for them to maintain a sense of balance, well-being, and inner harmony?
Finding balance, well-being, and inner harmony is essential for women juggling multiple roles. They should prioritize self-care, practice mindfulness, and set boundaries to prevent burnout. Embracing their archetypal strengths can also help them align their actions with their true selves, fostering a sense of balance and fulfilment in all their endeavours.
How can women collectively harness their strengths and diverse talents to create a more peaceful, just, sustainable, healthier, and joyful world?
Women can collectively create a better world by recognizing their collective strengths and diverse talents. They should come together, share their visions, and collaborate across different areas of expertise. By focusing on shared goals, practicing empathy and compassion, and leveraging each other’s strengths, women can drive positive change and contribute to a more peaceful, just, sustainable, healthier, and joyful world.
In your experience, Dr. Chopra, what qualities, and archetypes have led to the success of powerful female leaders like Oprah Winfrey?
Oprah Winfrey embodies several powerful archetypes. She’s a storyteller, a nurturer, and a builder. She listens to and validates people’s stories, which has been key to her success. She’s also a feminist and focuses on empowering marginalized women, making her a role model for many.
How can women who identify with the mother archetype and aspire to be leaders navigate the apparent contradiction between these roles effectively?
Embrace the contradiction and ambiguity. Paradoxes are sources of creativity. Being a mother and a leader can coexist. Oprah Winfrey herself is a motherly figure to many and a successful leader. It’s about finding a balance and understanding that people want to tell their stories. Listen and validate them, and you can succeed in both roles.
You mentioned the importance of validation and listening to people’s stories. Can you elaborate on how this approach can contribute to success, as Oprah exemplifies?
Validation and active listening are keys to success. Oprah’s ability to genuinely listen and validate people’s stories has made her a remarkable storyteller and a successful journalist. When you focus on what you can do for others, it can lead to great success.
Oprah Winfrey also engages in philanthropic work, such as educating thousands of children in South Africa. How does her nurturing and giving nature contribute to her impact and influence?
Oprah’s nurturing and giving nature is a significant part of her impact and influence. She has nurtured thousands of children in South Africa, showing that being a nurturer and a leader can go hand in hand. Her philanthropic efforts align with her values and empower others, making her a role model for many.
In the discussion, you touched upon the idea of embracing contradiction and ambiguity. How can this approach benefit individuals and organizations striving for success?
Embracing contradiction and ambiguity is essential for creativity. Without paradoxes and conflicts, there’s no room for growth and innovation. It’s crucial for individuals and organizations to embrace these challenges, as they often lead to breakthroughs and unique solutions.
During the meditation session, you explored the concept of “Who am I?” and encouraged self-reflection. How can this practice help individuals in their personal and professional growth?
Self-reflection, as practiced in the meditation, can lead to self-awareness and personal growth. It helps individuals understand their true selves and their desires. Knowing oneself is crucial for making aligned choices in both personal and professional life.
You mentioned the importance of financial well-being as part of overall well-being. How can individuals achieve financial security while also pursuing their passions and values, as discussed in the conversation?
Achieving financial security while pursuing passions and values requires aligning your work with your purpose. It’s about finding ways to contribute to the world while also ensuring financial stability. This balance can be achieved by understanding what success means to you and recognizing that true success includes financial well-being alongside other aspects of life.
In the world of sales and personal development, Navin Jaitly’s remarkable journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a celebrated sales coach, award-winning speaker, and best-selling author is truly inspiring. In this exclusive interview with Global Man Magazine, Navin shares the transformative steps he took to overcome adversity, emphasizing self-awareness, self-belief, and self-kindness as the cornerstones of his success.
With over 15 years of sales experience, Navin reveals that the most potent sales strategy is a shift in mindset, focusing on serving customers rather than persuasion. His coaching has helped clients generate over £12 million in revenue with compelling success stories. Navin’s mission is to empower entrepreneurs and leaders worldwide, and he plans to revolutionize sales training and expand his impact through innovative programs and global speaking engagements.
Navin Jaitly’s journey is a testament to the transformative power of belief, resilience, and serving others, inspiring countless individuals to reach their full potential. Navin Jaitly’s journey exemplifies the transformative power of belief, resilience, and selflessness, inspiring countless individuals to realize their true potential.
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Can you tell us about your journey from a difficult childhood to becoming a successful sales coach and author? How did you overcome the challenges you faced early in life?
My journey was not an overnight one. I had to dedicate myself to developing myself personally and professionally. I found the more I worked on myself (especially on my mind-set), the more successful I became. It’s a long story but in summary, I overcame my challenges by
Becoming much more self- aware – Who I was, what I was about and where I got in my own way.
Developing my self- belief – I started to appreciate and realise that I had many gifts that I just wasn’t appreciating. I was focusing on my weaknesses too much and trying to fix them. As a result, this was undermining my self -belief. As soon as I started to focus on my strengths and develop them further, my self -belief shot through the roof.
Became kinder to myself – I stopped beating myself up for mistakes I made or things that I didn’t achieve and instead became more accepting. This completely changed my energy and made me able to attract what I wanted.
What inspired you to enter the world of sales, and how did you discover your passion for helping others develop their sales potential?
I entered sales as I was always good with people. I’m naturally an inquisitive person and love dealing with people. Sales was a good fit in that sense. My passion for helping others came from the way I personally turned my own results around.
Once I knew that I had a success formula that I had benefitted from, I wanted to go out and share it with everyone. Furthermore, being in sales, helped me to realise just how important it is to develop as a skill.
I saw so many business owners/ entrepreneurs suffer as a result of not being able to bring in new customers. I want to help them grow their businesses and ultimately their lives.
With over 15 years of experience in sales, could you share some of the most effective sales strategies you’ve learned throughout your career?
There are so many that it would be too long to list for this interview. What I would say, is the most effective strategy is to develop the way you think about sales.
Sales is all about serving. Rather than trying to persuade the customer to do something. Ask them questions that find out about them and their needs, then listen attentively.
Rather than trying to impress a customer, empower them instead. People often don’t buy because they don’t trust their decision or don’t have faith that their purchase will work out for them.
If you focus on empowering them then they have faith in themselves and more likely to make a buying a decision. By putting all your attention on serving and empowering you will have much better results than just trying to persuade and impress.
You’ve helped your clients sell over £12 million in revenue. Can you share a specific success story or case study of a client you’ve worked with and the impact your coaching had on their sales growth?
One of my clients came to me and really wanted to grow their business into a multiple six figure one. She found that she would have many conversations with people, but very few of them would turn into a paying customer. Furthermore, she struggled to increase her prices and would often find she would lose a potential customers interest, if she did try raising the price. She also wanted to increase the number of sales leads she was getting
The first thing I did was work on her sales mind-set and helped her to develop a more positive relationship with sales. We used some powerful mind – set tools to increase her confidence and belief around herself as well as her products/ service. We then created a sales strategy/ plan and helped her to reposition the way she spoke about her service.
I coached her around several sales techniques such as objection handling, questioning, closing, negotiating etc. As a result within a short period, her sales started to dramatically increase. Furthermore, with everything she had learnt, she was able to increase her prices of her services.
After just 3 months of working with me, she had the confidence to double her pricing and furthermore found that clients were willing to pay the higher prices. I not only provided her with the tools to feel confident to double her prices but the skills needed to help her customers understand her value and be willing to pay them. Furthermore, her sales revenue doubled in the first 6 months of working with me.Her business transformed as did the income, revenue and impact that she made. She now runs a successful, multiple six figure business.
Winning several awards for outstanding sales contribution is a remarkable achievement. What do you believe sets you apart from others in the sales industry and led to this recognition?
There are a few things that set me apart. First of all, I have developed a very positive and resilient mind-set. I don’t give up easily and am always on the front foot. 15 years of sales experience in a variety of environments has also blessed me with a range of highly effective sales skills.
Furthermore, it’s my journey. I have transformed myself from underachiever to high achiever. I know what it is like to be on both sides of the performance fence and as a result this makes me far more effective when helping customers do the same. I think the biggest factor, is that I genuinely care about my customers. I love developing people and watching them grow.
I love to help and serve. Ultimately I get results for both myself and my clients! The combination of these factors is what sets me apart.
Your personal development journey, including coaching, hypnotherapy, and NLP, played a significant role in transforming your mind-set. How do you incorporate these practices into your coaching to help others achieve similar transformations?
I use NLP and Hypnotherapy as tools to rewire my customer’s subconscious beliefs and thoughts.
I use them as tools to go deep into my customer’s minds and develop more positive thoughts and actions.
As an award-winning speaker and an international best-selling author, what topics do you typically speak and write about, and how do you use these platforms to further empower entrepreneurs and business leaders?
I write and speak a lot about mind set, not just related to sales but also related to general performance. I also write and speak about sales theories and concepts. Furthermore, I write and talk about coaching, what is it and what its value is.
I am a big believer in developing mind-set and sales skillset, by using a coaching approach.
Travelling the world as part of your personal development journey must have been eye-opening. How did these experiences shape your perspectives and contribute to your personal growth?
Travelling was amazing and very educational. Not only did I learn a lot about different people and cultures around the world but learnt a lot about myself.
Furthermore, travelling and exposing myself to new situations, made me more flexible and open minded, it made me more adaptable and ok with unfamiliar situations.
I also increased my self -belief and confidence as I saw that I was excelling in many different situations and with different types of people. All of this really accelerated my personal growth and even to this day helps me become more effective as a coach and a businessman.
Establishing Navin Jaitly Coaching Ltd is a significant accomplishment. Could you describe your coaching approach and how you combine sales expertise with mind-set and peak performance principles?
My coaching approach is to combine developing my client’s mind – set and skills set so that they are able to make more sales, income and impact.
I use tools that I’ve learnt from coaching, hypnotherapy, NLP and my intensive study of personal development to develop their mind-set.
I then teach the tools and strategies that I’ve learnt from 15 years of successful sales, in order to teach sales skillset. By combining the 2, my clients gain exponential results.
Your mission is to empower and transform the sales/business results of entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders globally. What are your future goals and aspirations for achieving this mission, and how do you plan to expand your impact worldwide?
My future goal is to become the leading coach/ business in the industry when it comes to developing both the sales mind set and the skillset of business owners. I want to revolutionise the way sales training/ coaching is delivered in businesses. My long-term vision is to transform the success and empower over 1 million people globally.
I plan to expand by developing new group sales coaching programmes, a sales coaching app and an enhanced version of my sales impact academy online programme. I also plan to expand by speaking on some of the biggest stages in the world and even creating large events that help to transform people’s sales success.
In a world filled with stories of resilience and triumph, Dr. Bilal’s life journey is a testament to the power of determination, dreams, and the pursuit of justice. Born in an Albanian communist concentration camp, his early years were marked by hardship, but they also sparked a deep desire for success drawn from the pages of Western novels.
Motivated by his family’s legacy of resistance against oppression, he made a vow to study law and fight for justice whenever given the opportunity. His journey took him from Albania to London, where he pursued law studies and specialized in international business law.
Completing a Ph.D. in Strategic Leadership further enhanced his understanding of leadership and shaped his career in both public and private sectors. As Dr. Bilal embarks on a new journey as a motivational speaker and life coach, his story remains an inspiration for those who truly believe in lifelong learning and pursuing their passions.
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Can you share more about your early years growing up in a communist concentration camp and the impact it had on your perspective and drive for success?
Ever since I started to understand and experience the reality it became more and more obvious to me that being treated unfairly and most importantly being treated differently to other kids was something that I had to get used to, as there was nothing I could do to change the reality of it.
Throughout my childhood and adolescence, the phenomenon that caused me the most bitterness, low self-esteem and insecurity was comparing myself to others. I could not even be compared with my peers at the concentration camp. Since the vast majority of the kids at the concentration camp had their father at home, while my father was locked away in political prison.
Other kids at the concentration camp had some of the basics (like food and clothes) while most of the time I went hungry and was wearing ravaged clothes. Then in adolescence, as if putting the seal to everything in relation to comparing myself with others, at the age of 14 as I was prohibited to go to secondary school – I was ordered by the authorities to do heavy labor work in agriculture (during communism internees were categorically prohibited to go to university or college, but they were allowed to go to secondary school – so my case was a special exemption from the exclusionary rule itself).
To this extremely burdened emotional state (due to comparing myself with others) it just thankfully happened that I found the ‘cure’ through what I now call the phenomenon of ‘escaping into books’. So, by reading various novels of western authors (which were indeed very hard to find back in communist Albania), I was inspired and aspired to become like their characters.
My desire to achieve success (to become knowledgeable, articulate, polite, famous, rich, etc) has been a deeply ingrained mindset that I have cultivated since my childhood in trying to emulate my role models exemplified in the characters of western authors.
Your family’s history is marked by opposition to the communist regime. How did your family’s experiences influence your academic and career choices, especially in the field of law?
While in the concentration camp, during my early teen years my biggest and wildest dream was to flee Albania and go to the US to study law and become a lawyer. My grandfather had been shot without trial by the communist dictatorship just for being a good patriot and collaborating with British SOEs against Nazis (even though he was someone who had been graduated as a student in Austria), my dad was locked away in a political prison (just for being courageous enough to speak his mind) since I was two years old, my family was exiled in various concentration camps since May 1945.
All these injustices had me fired up inside, instilling a deep passion about law and justice. So, I had sworn to myself – if I ever got free there was no other choice for me but law.
Tell us about the pivotal moments or individuals who inspired you to pursue a career in law and international business law, considering your challenging beginnings.
As I said before, the severe injustices that my family had been subjected to and all the deprivations that I had experienced throughout my childhood and adolescence, had me deeply fired up inside for justice. So, I’ve always felt that given the chance, studying law and becoming a lawyer was the right tool how I could give my contribution to my family and my people.
Thankfully, when communism fell, I was so adamant to fulfill this dream of mine. In 1993, Lord Julian Emery (a friend of my grandfather) came to Albania receiving a medal from the Albanian president of that time. My father met him and thereafter my dream started to become a reality.
So, I started my law studies in London. After finishing my bachelor studies, living in the financial capital of Europe led me thinking that focusing on international business law would give me a competitive edge when I returned to Albania (the scholarship I got with the help from Lord Emery had a condition that after finishing school I had to return to Albania, so I had to honor that commitment I took in front of him).
Your academic journey is quite diverse, from law to international business and aviation law. How did these different areas of study complement each other in shaping your career?
Ever since I returned to Albania I’ve engaged in various interesting projects and works, but all of them revolving on commercial and corporate law. I had the opportunity to study international aviation law while I was working as director legal for the German company operating Tirana airport.
I think that I’ve always held an interest in expanding my professional knowledge and whenever an opportunity has arisen, I’ve never had any hesitation to go for it.
You completed your PhD in Strategic Leadership. How has this advanced degree contributed to your leadership roles, both in the public and private sectors?
Again the PhD in Strategic Leadership was something of an opportunity to me. When I was director legal at the airport company, it just happened that I was went to Vienna very frequently as I was representing my company in an international arbitration case.
In Vienna I’ve met a lot of interesting and influential people and one of them introduced me this opportunity to study for my PhD. But instead of paying the tuition to the university, I could contribute in kind (like a barter transaction) in giving lectures at the same university for its undergraduates in business law.
My PhD degree in Strategic Leadership has been a massive help in structuring and refining my practical knowledge about leadership and making significant strides in my career (I believe leadership skills have a tremendous impact in all walks of life, both professional and personal).
Could you elaborate on your motivation for enrolling in the Executive Coaching program? How do you plan to integrate coaching into your career trajectory?
In the last couple of years I felt that I have taken and given as much as I could in my legal career. So, without saying I’ve felt bored with law it may be worth saying that recently I’ve felt that I have so much more to contribute – beyond being a lawyer – to give and share with enthusiasm and passion with the world about my professional and personal life experiences.
So, as a blueprint for I plan in my career I’ve written a book in the genre of personal development, titled: ’12 MINDSETS to improve life radically’. My career goal now (for which I have a tremendous passion to share with as many people as possible) is to become an international motivational speaker and life coach. However, given the fact that throughout my career I have worked with executives (being one myself for many years) and knowing what motivates them, knowing theirs challenges and goals, I think makes me much more suitable to initially coach them.
Hence, enrolling onto an accredited ICF Executive Coaching program I feel is the right approach for my credentials as a life coach and motivational speaker.
Starting your own law firm is a significant achievement. What were the biggest challenges you faced during this entrepreneurial journey, and what advice would you offer to aspiring entrepreneurs?
Judged by my experience, I believe that the biggest challenge an entrepreneur faces is making the decision to start out (when I’ve took the decision to start my own law firm I had a very well-paid job, but I also had much higher ambitions that I somehow wanted to fulfill).
My advice is simple (but maybe not easy): (i) focus on your passions, talents or skills; (ii) come up with a well-structured SMART goal; (iii) be courageous to take that crucial first step; (iv) persist no matter what, because perseverance is always associated with the ‘lucky breaks’; (iv) work very hard until your expertise and reputation will make you work smart.
Then you will most likely experience the true self-actualization. Just like Confucius said: ‘when we do for work something we like, we never work a single day in our life’.
As a motivational speaker and coach, you inspire others to improve their lives. Can you share a few of your key “mindsets” for personal development that have resonated most with your audiences?
On a personal development level I love to share with my audiences how they can cultivate and practice the concepts and wisdom associated with: acceptance and Amor Fati, forgiving everyone and anything, equanimity, gratitude, etc.
On a professional development level, I love to share with them how they can learn and apply the soft skills of leadership, emotional intelligence, public communication, persuasion and negotiation – combining them with the mindsets of ‘every failure is stepping stone to success’, not comparing our first chapter with somebody’s tenth chapter, Ikigai (purpose), etc.
Your involvement in organizations like the Albanian-British Chamber of Commerce and the International Lawyers Association is impressive. How has networking and being part of these associations influenced your career?
Life has taught me to truly believe in this wonderful and wise saying (not only in a financial sense but in its entire dimension): ‘your network is your net worth’.
So, I’m truly blessed to know so many wonderful, kind and talented individuals as a result of my professional networking. It gives me great satisfaction to acknowledge to them (or sharing with others) any contribution (no matter small or big) that I’ve had from anyone of them in my career advancement.
You’ve been an external university professor in Business Law for many years. What aspects of teaching and mentoring students do you find most rewarding, and how does it complement your other professional endeavours?
I love teaching and mentoring for two main reasons: (i) because of the direct positive contribution I have on the life of the students (I actually experience the so-called ‘giver’s high’ when I teach and mentor); and (ii) because I firmly believe in the saying ‘who teaches others, also teaches himself’.
So, my teaching and mentoring always keeps me updated, ‘on my feet’, and what I truly love to be for myself – a life-long student.
Welcome to an exclusive interview with Armand Beasley, the renowned beauty guru and celebrity make-up artist with over 25 years of experience. Armand shares his insights on the evolution of make-up and skincare, highlighting advancements in textures and performance, as well as the growing appeal of sustainability and organic practices among smaller niche brands.
As a versatile creative, Armand’s journey extends beyond make-up artistry, delving into acting and hosting seminars worldwide. He discusses the rewards of inspiring aspiring artists and enthusiasts while sharing expert advice on establishing a daily beauty routine that enhances natural features and promotes healthy skin. Stay tuned as he reveals the inspiration behind his cult-favourite product, Pro Body Glow, and offers a glimpse into the future of the beauty industry, emphasizing authenticity and embracing the holistic side of beauty.
A: With over 25 years of experience in the industry, how have you seen the world of make-up and skincare evolve over time? B: If you had to single them out, what trends stand out to you?
A: Technology has obviously advanced, so textures and performance have improved. People are taking notice of smaller independent niche brands too, especially ones that have a 360-degree approach to sustainability.
B: Awareness of the organic and sustainability are trends worth noticing today.
As a celebrity make-up artist, you have had the opportunity to work with a wide range of A-list celebrities. Can you share any memorable experiences or challenges you faced while creating looks for them?
The main challenge is time. Chances are, as a makeup artist, you get your allotted time cut down, so you have to be quick, precise, and efficient without making your client feel like they’re being rushed.
You have been involved in various TV shows, from Lorraine to How To Look Good Naked. How do you approach the process of transforming someone’s appearance and boosting their confidence through make-up and styling?
It’s important to be mindful of the individual’s lifestyle, as you want them to feel as if they can maintain their new look. Plus, they still need to see themselves in the mirror—but the best version of themselves.
In addition to your work as a make-up artist, you have also pursued acting and have a role in an upcoming drama series. How do these two creative fields intersect for you, and how does each one contribute to your overall career?
I started as an actor but it’s rare for an actor to work continuously so you have to diversify between acting gigs. So, making people feel good as well as look good is a great second job for me. Plus, I see so many different types of people that it’s great character research!
As an expert in both make-up and skincare, what advice would you give to someone looking to establish a daily beauty routine that enhances their natural features and promotes healthy skin? Additionally, what do you find most rewarding about inspiring aspiring make-up artists and beauty enthusiasts in the industry?
Invest in a really good cleanser, eye treatment, and moisturizer for your daily beauty routine. Avoid face wipes, as they only move dirt around the face. Always match your foundation to your neck tone, and you can add warmth to your complexion with a matte bronzer or subtle contouring.
Hosting seminars and events and inspiring aspiring make-up artists and beauty enthusiasts is incredibly rewarding. Seeing their progress, receiving feedback, and feeling the energy of their passion and enthusiasm brings me immense joy. I love watching others grow in their skills and creativity within the industry.
Your product, Pro Body Glow, has gained a cult following as a 100% natural high shine nourishing multipurpose balm. What inspired you to create it, and what differentiates it from other similar products on the market? Further, can you tell us about your commitment to cruelty-free products and why it’s important to you?
It was born from a casual conversation that I had with one of my clients, actress Goldie Hawn, which led me to a “chance” meeting with the MD of Buzzbalm Beauty, and before you knew it, we were working on the formulation. Then, one year later and over 50 formulations later, we hit the sweet spot, and Pro Body Glow was born.
A little really goes a long way with Pro Body Glow. Some balms can be greasy, which is a big point of difference. All of our ingredients are ethically sourced, including the honey, which is taken using “Flow Hives” so as not to disturb the lovely bees. There are so many different uses for men and women: as a lip balm, to intensify the appearance of tattoos, to give gleam to the skin, to nourish dry and dehydrated skin, as a highlighter on cheekbones, on stretch marks, to intensify the appearance of a tan, etc. Some customers on Amazon UK have even said that it’s really helped with their children’s eczema!
One major reason I believe in cruelty-free make-up as an artist and skincare expert is short: in this day and age, no animal should suffer in the creation of beauty products.
From working at the Oscars to creating looks for celebrities like Goldie Hawn and Nicole Scherzinger, you have had incredible experiences throughout your career. Is there a particular moment or achievement that stands out as a highlight for you?
Wow! I have been very fortunate to have so many highlights. I think co-creating Pro Body Glow as well as training in Reikki were personally life changing. But as far as my career is concerned, flying out for the Oscars and working at the G8 summit one year, also hosting Makeup Week India in Mumbai, was fantastic.
With your extensive knowledge and experience, what do you see as the future of the beauty industry? Are there any emerging trends or advancements that you find particularly exciting?
I love the more holistic side of beauty, and for me, it’s more about active ageing than anti-aging. I really like to be inspired by ancient rituals and see what we can learn from the past to create a better present. I say “present” because all we have is the now; there’s no tangible thing as the future. The looming emergence of AI troubles me, as does the use of filters, etc., as a lot of people seem to be seeking solace in a fake version of reality.
You’ve done so much what is left for you to do?
Well, I would love to create an organic and vegan makeup range. I’ve already done a lot of research on it, and I know that there’s a gap in the market for a high performing ethical range that’s simple and straightforward. I’d also love to do more acting, so if there are any casting directors out there my agent is Lime Management UK!
As a publication devoted to the modern, ambitious, and globally-minded man, Global Man Magazine is excited to bring to you a thought-provoking conversation with a man who embodies these very characteristics. We present an exclusive interview with one of the world’s most influential figures in wellness and integrative healthcare – a consultant, a best-selling author, a speaker, and a powerful advocate for self-healing and healthy living, Dr. Fab Mancini.
From advising governmental and civic organizations, including the White House Commission for Complementary and Alternative Medicine, to transforming organizations’ approach to wellness, Dr. Mancini has made waves across different sectors and continents. He has served as the President/CEO and President Emeritus of Parker University, and his bestselling book, “The Power of Self-Healing,” has become a global phenomenon, inspiring individuals to tap into their body’s natural ability to heal itself. In this insightful interview, Dr. Mancini takes us on his remarkable journey, sharing the challenges, opportunities, and powerful stories that have shaped his career and the field of integrative healthcare.
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As a global executive and consultant in wellness and integrative healthcare, what do you consider to be the most significant challenges and opportunities in promoting self-healing and healthy lifestyles on a global scale?
When it comes to promoting self-healing and healthy lifestyles on a global scale, there are both significant challenges and incredible opportunities that lie before us, especially for high achievers. One of the most significant challenges is shifting the mindset of individuals from a reactive approach to health, where we wait until something goes wrong before taking action, to a proactive approach that prioritises prevention and self-care.
Imagine your body as a finely tuned instrument, like a sleek sports car. Just as you invest time and resources into maintaining and optimizing your car’s performance, you must do the same for your body. The opportunity lies in recognizing that your body is a self-healing marvel, capable of restoring and rejuvenating itself when given the proper conditions and care.
To seize this opportunity, I recommend starting with small, actionable steps that align with your busy lifestyle. Begin by incorporating mindful moments throughout your day, whether it’s a few minutes of deep breathing or a brief meditation session. Cultivate a nourishing relationship with food, choosing whole, unprocessed ingredients that fuel your body and mind. Engage in regular physical activity that you enjoy, whether it’s a dance class, yoga session, or brisk walk in nature.
The science supports these practices, showing that mindfulness reduces stress levels, proper nutrition strengthens immune function, and exercise releases endorphins that boost mood and overall well-being. By prioritizing these practices and integrating them into your daily routine, you can gradually transform your life and inspire others to do the same.
You have worked with various organizations and individuals to transform their approach to wellness and healthcare. Could you share a particularly memorable success story that highlights the impact of your work?
Let me share a memorable success story that exemplifies the impact of my work. I once worked with a high-powered executive, much like your readers, who was constantly under immense pressure to perform and deliver results. She had neglected her well-being for years, sacrificing sleep, healthy eating, and exercise in pursuit of professional success.
During our coaching sessions, we discussed the importance of self-care and how it ultimately enhances productivity and effectiveness. We explored practical strategies to incorporate wellness into her demanding schedule, such as creating a morning routine that included exercise, setting boundaries to ensure adequate rest, and adopting healthier eating habits.
Over time, she began to experience profound changes. She had more energy, improved focus, and a renewed sense of purpose. She became an inspiring example to her team, advocating for work-life balance and prioritizing employee well-being. This cultural shift resulted in increased productivity, reduced turnover, and improved overall company performance.
The transformative power of this success story lies in recognizing that investing in our own well-being not only benefits us individually but also has a ripple effect on our organizations and the people around us. By prioritizing self-care and leading by example, we can create a positive and thriving work environment that supports the holistic health of all.
With your expertise in executive leadership, what advice would you give to aspiring leaders in the wellness industry who aim to create a vision for growth, profitability, and value?
First, it’s essential to clarify your purpose and define your unique value proposition. What makes your approach to wellness distinct? What specific problems do you solve? Understanding your unique contribution will help you stand out in a crowded market and attract clients and partners who resonate with your vision.
Second, embrace a growth mindset. View challenges as opportunities for learning and expansion. Stay curious and open to new ideas and research, always seeking to integrate the latest evidence-based practices into your offerings. Continually educate yourself to remain at the forefront of the wellness industry and position yourself as a thought leader.
Third, foster collaboration and strategic partnerships. Surround yourself with like-minded individuals and organizations that share your values and complementary expertise. By joining forces, you can amplify your impact and create a collective movement towards a healthier world.
Finally, lead by example. Walk the talk and embody the principles you espouse. Your personal well-being and success serve as a powerful testament to the effectiveness of your approach. By living a balanced, purpose-driven life, you inspire others to follow suit and become ambassadors of wellness themselves.
As an author, speaker, and media personality, you have been influential in educating and motivating others to improve their health and wellness. How do you ensure that your message resonates with diverse audiences across different cultures and languages?
As a global author, speaker, and media personality, my aim is to ensure that my message resonates with diverse audiences across different cultures and languages. I achieve this by focusing on universal principles and values that transcend cultural boundaries.
One of the key principles is the acknowledgment of our shared humanity. Regardless of our cultural backgrounds, we all aspire to live a fulfilling and healthy life. By emphasizing this common goal, I create a bridge of understanding that allows my message to resonate with individuals from all walks of life.
Another strategy I employ is the use of relatable metaphors and personal examples. I believe stories have a unique power to connect people, and I often share narratives that illustrate the transformative potential of self-healing and healthy lifestyle choices. By providing vivid and relatable anecdotes, I tap into the emotions and experiences that are universally understood and appreciated.
Furthermore, I prioritise the translation and adaptation of my work into different languages and cultural contexts. By working with professional translators and cultural consultants, I ensure that my message retains its authenticity and relevance when shared with diverse audiences.
Ultimately, the key lies in approaching each interaction with empathy and cultural sensitivity. By recognizing and respecting the uniqueness of each individual and community, we can create a more inclusive and empowering dialogue around health and wellness.
Having served as President/CEO and President Emeritus of Parker University, what strategies did you implement to transform the institution into a growing accredited university meeting the evolving needs of the healthcare industry?
First, I focused on fostering a culture of innovation and collaboration. By encouraging interdisciplinary partnerships and creating platforms for knowledge exchange, we harnessed the collective intelligence of our faculty, staff, and students. This collaborative approach allowed us to stay ahead of emerging trends and adapt our curriculum and programs accordingly.
Second, I emphasised the integration of technology and cutting-edge research. We invested in state-of-the-art facilities and equipment, ensuring that our students had access to the latest advancements in healthcare. By embracing technology, we expanded our educational reach beyond traditional boundaries, offering online courses and virtual learning opportunities.
Third, we cultivated strong relationships with industry leaders and practitioners. Through partnerships and advisory boards, we gained valuable insights into the evolving needs and demands of the healthcare sector. This allowed us to tailor our educational offerings to align with real-world requirements and provide our graduates with a competitive edge.
Lastly, I prioritised the well-being and personal growth of our students. Recognizing that healthcare professionals must embody the principles they teach, we incorporated wellness and business education into our curriculum. We empowered our students to embrace self-care, resilience, and a holistic approach to health, ensuring that they were not only knowledgeable practitioners but also exemplars of well-being.
By implementing these strategies, we positioned Parker University as a leading institution that not only met the needs of the healthcare industry but also prepared compassionate and empowered healthcare professionals to make a positive impact in the world.
You have advised governmental and civic organizations, including the White House Commission for Complementary and Alternative Medicine. What role do you see for complementary and alternative medicine in the future of healthcare, and how can it be integrated effectively?
When it comes to the future of healthcare, I firmly believe that complementary and alternative medicine (CAM) has a vital role to play. CAM offers a holistic and patient-centered approach that complements conventional medicine, focusing on prevention, empowerment, and the body’s innate ability to heal.
Just as diverse ecosystems thrive with a wide range of plant and animal species, our healthcare system can flourish by embracing a diverse array of healing modalities. Integrating CAM effectively requires a shift in perspective, from a narrow focus on disease management to a broader understanding of health promotion and well-being.
To achieve this integration, I recommend three action steps:
First, we must foster collaboration and open dialogue between conventional and complementary practitioners. By creating forums for knowledge exchange and mutual respect, we can bridge the gap and establish a cohesive and comprehensive approach to healthcare.
Second, we need to prioritise research and evidence-based practices in the field of CAM. Robust scientific studies and clinical trials are essential for validating the effectiveness and safety of CAM modalities. By supporting and participating in research efforts, we can build a solid foundation of evidence that allows CAM to be integrated into mainstream healthcare.
Lastly, education plays a critical role. We must equip healthcare professionals with the knowledge and skills to understand and appreciate the benefits of CAM. By incorporating CAM education into medical and healthcare training programs, we empower future practitioners to embrace a truly integrative approach and provide the best care possible.
By integrating CAM effectively, we can create a healthcare system that harnesses the best of both worlds, optimizing patient outcomes, and enhancing overall well-being.
Your best-selling book, “The Power of Self-Healing,” has inspired countless individuals. Could you share a personal anecdote or testimonial that exemplifies the transformative power of self-healing?
A few years ago, I was approached by a high-achieving executive who was struggling with chronic stress, anxiety, and burnout. Despite her professional success, she felt trapped in a cycle of exhaustion and disconnection from herself and her loved ones.
During our sessions, we explored the power of self-healing and the importance of addressing the underlying causes of her stress. We delved into the concept of self-care and the transformative potential of simple practices like mindfulness, gratitude, Chiropractic care and conscious breathing.
Over time, she began to incorporate these practices into her daily routine. She set aside time for self-reflection and self-care, nurturing her body, mind, and spirit. Gradually, she noticed profound changes. Her stress levels reduced, and she gained a newfound sense of clarity, resilience, and joy.
But the transformation didn’t stop there. As she experienced the profound benefits of self-healing, she became an advocate within her organization. She implemented wellness initiatives, created spaces for mindfulness and stress reduction, and encouraged her team members to prioritise self-care.
The impact was remarkable. Employee morale improved, productivity soared, and absenteeism decreased. The organization became a beacon of well-being, attracting top talent and earning a reputation as an employer that truly cared about the holistic well-being of its staff.
This personal anecdote exemplifies the transformative power of self-healing. When we embark on a journey of self-discovery and prioritise our well-being, we not only transform ourselves but also have the potential to create a ripple effect of positive change in our personal and professional lives.
In your experience as a consultant to businesses, governments, and non-profits, what innovative strategies have you recommended to expand market share for product-driven companies while reducing healthcare costs?
Here are a few actionable steps:
First, emphasise prevention and wellness. Shift the focus from reactive treatment to proactive wellness by creating products and services that support healthy lifestyles and preventive care. By targeting the root causes of health issues and providing resources for self-care, companies can reduce the need for costly interventions down the line.
Second, leverage technology and data analytics. Embrace digital solutions that empower individuals to take control of their health and well-being. Develop smart devices, wearables, and apps that provide personalised insights, tracking, and guidance. By leveraging data analytics, companies can gain valuable insights into consumer behavior, preferences, and trends, allowing them to tailor their offerings accordingly.
Third, prioritise employee well-being. Recognise that healthy and engaged employees are the foundation of a thriving organization. Implement comprehensive wellness programs that go beyond traditional healthcare benefits. Offer mindfulness training, stress reduction initiatives, Chiropractic care and resources for work-life balance. By investing in the well-being of your employees, you foster a culture of productivity, loyalty, and innovation.
Lastly, cultivate strategic partnerships. Collaborate with other organizations in the wellness and healthcare industry to create synergistic solutions. By combining resources, expertise, and networks, companies can expand their market reach, reduce costs through shared investments, and provide comprehensive solutions to consumers.
By implementing these innovative strategies, product-driven companies can differentiate themselves, attract a broader customer base, and contribute to a healthier society while reducing overall healthcare costs.
Your radio show, “Self-Healing with Dr. Fab,” has reached a wide audience. What motivated you to start the show, and what impact do you believe it has had on promoting a positive lifestyle and self-healing practices?
The motivation behind my radio show, “Self-Healing with Dr. Fab,” stems from a deep desire to empower individuals and promote a positive lifestyle rooted in self-healing practices. The show serves as a platform for sharing knowledge, inspiration, and practical tips for cultivating well-being.
I believe in the power of education and the transformative potential of information. Through my show, I aim to reach a wide audience and provide them with actionable tools and insights that they can apply to their daily lives.
Each episode of “Self-Healing with Dr. Fab” is carefully crafted to engage, inform, and inspire. I incorporate stories, metaphors, and real-life examples to make the content relatable and accessible. I invite guest experts from diverse backgrounds and cultures to offer a wide range of perspectives and expertise.
Moreover, I actively encourage audience participation. I invite listeners to submit questions and share their own experiences, creating a sense of community and shared learning. By incorporating their voices into the show, I foster a sense of ownership and empowerment, reminding individuals that they have the ability to take control of their health and well-being.
The impact of “Self-Healing with Dr. Fab” extends beyond the airwaves. Listeners have reported positive lifestyle changes, improved mental well-being, and a newfound sense of purpose. By providing a platform for education and inspiration, the show acts as a catalyst for personal transformation and a gateway to self-discovery.
With your multicultural perspective, what lessons have you learned about the importance of cultural sensitivity and inclusivity when delivering wellness and healthcare services to diverse populations around the world?
Here are a few key insights:
First and foremost, it’s crucial to recognise and respect cultural differences. Every culture has its own unique beliefs, traditions, and practices related to health and well-being. By approaching each individual and community with curiosity, openness, and humility, we can learn from their wisdom and integrate culturally relevant strategies into our offerings.
Second, effective communication is essential. Language barriers can hinder understanding and trust. It’s important to provide information and resources in multiple languages and utilise interpreters when necessary. Tailor your messaging to resonate with different cultural contexts, ensuring that it is relatable and accessible to diverse populations.
Third, foster partnerships with local leaders and organizations. Collaborate with community leaders, cultural influencers, and grassroots organizations to understand the specific needs and challenges faced by different populations. By working together, we can co-create solutions that are culturally sensitive, respectful, and impactful.
Finally, continuously educate yourself and your team about cultural diversity and inclusivity. Invest in training programs and resources that promote cultural competency and sensitivity. By nurturing a diverse and inclusive mindset within your organization, you can provide better care and services that honour and embrace the unique backgrounds and perspectives of each individual.
Remember, true wellness encompasses physical, mental, and emotional well-being, and it should be accessible to all, regardless of cultural background or socio-economic status. By prioritizing cultural sensitivity and inclusivity, we can create a world where everyone has equal access to the transformative power of wellness.
Frederick, our guest speaker for today, has a busy schedule. He is a very well-known, popular, and successful businessperson.
In the United States, he has managed to build an empire by buying and selling businesses. He created one of the biggest law firms in the United States.
His radio show is definitively one of the top radio shows in the United States.
He supports entrepreneurs and women’s empowerment. His story tells us how he came from a very humble background. The person that Frederick has become today is a testament to his transformation.
When you see his journey and his success, it’s not something that happened overnight.
Frederick is very approachable, accessible, and supportive. He is a high achiever who works with others in communication to be there for them because he has already sorted out the existential need through his companies.
It’s not something that was handed over to him, but something he has built and made. Frederick generously shares how we can all do the same.
When it comes to success, I’m not really used to it. I’m used to struggling with every nickel. I’ve learned the three most important things in life, and if you remember these three things, as I always say, they will seriously increase your odds. Three words: resist, resist, resist.
Frederick Penney
You have one of the most successful law firms—a definitive leader above competing law firms. In many ways, you’re already there. How do I get there and how does today’s Frederick Penney apply to everybody?
You can’t give up, no matter what. I’m not giving financial advice as a lawyer, but the odds of you becoming successful financially in your life are very high. If you follow a few principles that I’ve learned from three important women, you’ll succeed.
I’m a California boy, and I grew up in Southern California before moving to Northern California later.
I was raised by my mother, and I’m going to call her a Los Angeles woman. I mean, she’s an LA woman.
That’s all there is to it.
She loved the city. She loved the life of the city, and she taught me, much like my grandma Davis, about whom I will talk a lot.
My mother taught me how to love. She’s a very loving and kind person. One of those people that just loved everybody, you know! She’s the type that—as my saying goes, “I love everybody, but I just love some more than others”—cherished some more than others too. My grandmother on my dad’s side, as well as my dad, who raised us in a very rough household, also loved us highly.
My father, at 14, was on the streets. Biker gang kind of guy with tattoos, a tough Marine in the United States Marine Corps kind of guy.
He married this wonderfully sweet woman from LA, and that’s another whole story. But I want to talk about my mother’s mother, Myrna Davis.
Myrna Davis in the 1940s did something that most women couldn’t do or didn’t do. She opened her own supermarket, and she was one of the first women in LA to open a supermarket in the 1940s. It’s called Davis Supermarket. I’ve got pictures of it. I sat on her lap when she told me about it.
She was very entrepreneurial, a tough lady. Sweet and kind, but tough.
Wherever we moved, my grandma and grandpa would live near us. She calls me Freddy. Nobody else calls me Freddy; only she calls me Freddy.
Having lost a basketball game at 15, she asked me why I thought we lost. I told her I thought they were the better team, and then she said, “Well, why were they better?”
I said that because they were faster and made more shots. “Why did they make more shots, and why were they faster than you?” she asked.
She would not let me make an excuse because, remember, she’s been through an awful lot since the 1940s.
She did this often. But this time she really drilled down on me. She turned to me and said, “Freddy. Look, if you want to be the president of the United States, you just go be the president of the United States. The only one stopping you is you.”
Myrna Davis passed away in her twenties, and when they told her she had cancer, while everyone was upset, she turned to everyone and said, “We got to die of something.” And that was her attitude.
She was just a wonderful entrepreneur, a woman that just would not take no for an answer. Becoming wealthy takes time. For the vast majority, you don’t become wealthy quickly. I mean, it takes 30 years sometimes.
What is your philosophy, Frederick? Why do some people arrive sooner than some others?
I don’t know. Some people have approached me and said, “Fred, you were lucky.”
I put myself in a lucky position. So, I think if you put yourself in a position to become lucky, although some of it is luck, the positioning is important. The odds are in your favor, but you have to constantly grind, even in the right position.
Once, my dad and mom made me go work at Vega Brothers Ranch, where the saying is “from picking peaches to private jets.”
I started picking peaches in the fields when I was 13 or 14 years old, and that’s what I did every summer.
I learned all these lessons about working hard and coming from nothing. In fact, my controller—I have a full accounting department that runs my businesses—grew up in a single-wide trailer next to me as one of my best friends.
When it comes to success, I’m not really used to it. I’m used to struggling with every nickel. I’ve learned the three most important things in life, and if you remember these three things, as I always say, they will seriously increase your odds.
Three words: resist, resist, resist.
What do I mean?
Picture my friends buying big homes, Lamborghinis, Ferraris, Corvettes, and so on, while I stayed at home in this little humble house for 10 years and saved just about every nickel I had.
I invested in other companies. I invested in real estate. I bought companies; I built companies. I bought real estate. For 10 years, I stayed in that little humble home because I wanted to take that money and invest it. I resisted getting the Ferrari, and I resisted building the big mansion.
I resisted going out to expensive dinners. We went to cheap places. We went to Walmart and the $9-a-plate restaurants. That’s what I’ve done my whole life because it didn’t bother me that I didn’t have money. It didn’t bother me that I didn’t have those things.
Today, Penney Lawyers has offices in 45 states (46 with partners) in the United States. As I built that practice, I’ve always remembered the words.
Resist, resist, resist. It doesn’t matter if you make a thousand dollars a month. Or 150,000 a month. It’s still the same issue.
Resist, resist, resist.
How can we deal with the big problems—the mindset and personality factors that contribute to our success? Do you think genes have an impact on us?
People ask about my business sometimes, and I tell them I’ve never failed. Some people have the attitude that this is boasting. When it comes to being negatively minded, I think some people have personalities that are naturally formed that way. I have a PMA attitude—a positive mental attitude. I reframe others’ problems as challenges. We don’t have problems in life. We have challenges.
I teach people that.
You just keep going forward. And that’s the way I am. I started this from nothing and built it from nothing over 31 years. It doesn’t come easy. I just grind, and I still grind to this day, but I have a positive attitude.
I don’t look at the political aspect either.
It doesn’t matter what’s happening. I’m going to have a positive attitude. I’m going to adjust my sail on my boat, and I’m going to ride the winds of change. That’s the way I approach this.
What do you think can be done by people like you to bring more justice to this world?
Well, I mean, here’s the thing that’s interesting. That’s what we do. That’s what our partners do. We help people in the worst times of their lives. That’s what we do.
But when it comes down to some women who are in another country and have little or no freedom, this service and the circumstances change in a difficult way. It is hard to comment. I did come from privilege because I was born free in the United States.
I did not come from money. I did not come with a lot of the privileges that money buys across the globe.
It’s hard because some people have it much more difficult than we do. Even though growing up was rough, it wasn’t anything compared to other people in the world. I count my blessings on that.
It’s hard to say, “Oh, this is what you need to do,” when I’m coming from the United States or you’re coming from London, where we have a higher level of freedom and security.
What can be done, and what can we do? You just help people.
I open my doors to so many people. There’s a downside, unfortunately. Some people take advantage of it. I don’t have time for everybody to be helped. Help is what I instill across my companies, right? I don’t have just a law firm.
I have a fast-food restaurant, chains that I’ve built, water parks, and entertainment centers. So, I’ve done a number of things, but I try to teach staff to help others.
You do the best you can to help others, but you just can’t do it all across every population. It’s not just about money.
Everyone thinks it’s a question like, “Oh Fred, can I have 10,000?” but no. It is not. That’s not going to solve the problem. Helping people become more aware and mentally strong is part of solving the global issue.
To avoid getting overly political, I will not mention what the Ukrainian women are going through right now. I can’t understand it. It’s brutal. Right? And how do we help people across the country and across the globe?
I do the best I can, but I can’t solve everyone’s issues.
Everybody has a vision. So, if I ask you, what is your biggest mission?
At the end of our journey through life, we each have an epitaph, a couple of lines on our stone. But the grave and hole are the same size, rich or poor, and I saw a picture the other day drawing on this comparison.
What’s important are relationships. Children: I have children and grandchildren. I have a wonderful wife.
By the way, it is my wife of 37 years who stuck by me as a nurse and put me through law school. She has helped build this with me. She’s a little different, is very reserved, and does not want any fanfare. She hates fanfare, but she’s the rock behind me, right?
I admire her and thank her for putting up with me for 37 years.
You are always dealing with legal issues, justice, and injustice, so what is something you practice that helps in managing and maintaining a positive mindset?
So that’s very difficult.
I’ll come across people in different states or in California who literally know my voice. “You’re the host of Radio Law Talk,” for which I’ll say again, we’re the second largest radio show in the United States.
It’s not a podcast; it’s a radio show that we podcast called Radio Law Talk. People walk up to me and say, We know who you are, and you’ve sued my family. You sued my company, and you sued this. There are thousands of lawsuits going on. My name’s on it.
I’ll tell you, that’s a very difficult thing that I’ve struggled with not knowing how to handle.
Unfortunately, that is how the world operates. I always say, “Well, that means I’ll help someone else out.” Maybe someone lost on the other end, but I helped people out.
I get it. People always say, “This person doesn’t like you.” I don’t like lawyers either.
I don’t like every lawyer, and I get it if I’m not liked by every lawyer. I’m okay with who I am, and I’m okay if someone doesn’t like me. I’ve learned that I should not worry if someone doesn’t like me.
That doesn’t mean I don’t want to do the best I can in this world. But if you worry about what everybody thinks of you and if they like you or not, you’ll go crazy and have a difficult time succeeding.
Someone who is too worried about that needs to know they just have to do the best that can be done.
Help others as much as you can and build relationships as best you can, and then move forward.
Tell us a little bit more about your radio show. How did you go from practicing law to experience big success in the media as well? Tell us a little bit more about your love for the media and your radio.
I met a guy by the name of Cal Hunter who is a three-time Emmy Award-nominated producer and/or newsperson. We came up with this collaboration, and, as I built my national law firm, I’ve developed on social media.
For those of you who do not know, it is Frederick William. Frederick Penny One is my Instagram, and I push social media a lot.
On a side note, our law firm has represented talkers, Instagrammers, and YouTubers out of LA. Because we are an LA office, I know a lot of these influencers, and they’re kids, by the way.
So, my producer says, “Why don’t you do a national radio show?” So, I said, okay.
I got on the local radio show, and I started Radio Law Talk. It was boring. It was the worst thing you could ever do. It was a legal discussion. And then I took the paper that I had all my notes on. I had all these notes on how I was going to run everything.
I threw it away, and I said, “You know what? Just be yourself.”
I studied the legal issues of the day and the cases of the day, and I just started talking, and that’s when it started to take off. Next thing you know, a JOR in Georgia, Idaho, New York, Chicago, all the stations, started picking up my show. Then we started building this six years ago, and now I think we’re in almost every state in the United States.
Stations pick us up. I have affiliate relations with a manager who just emailed me. Three new stations just brought us on for our next week and on to the week before.
This is my mantra for our show: “It’s the most exciting, entertaining, and only sometimes informative show on earth because we make it fun.”
Johnny Depp’s highly publicized trial was the greatest trial. I mean, we followed Johnny Depp’s trial closely. We talked about the legal issues. And the show has just boomed.
I built my own studio with Cal Hunter near my home, and it just continues to grow.
He and I built this thing six years ago, and it took off.
Entrepreneurship is fraught with risks, uncertainty, and emotional turbulence. Business failure is often viewed as a scary, unpredictable, and potentially catastrophic event. Nevertheless, successful entrepreneurs are no strangers to failure. Many have experienced setbacks, bad decisions, or flawed business plans before achieving success. In the end, the beauty of failure is the opportunity it provides to learn, grow, and pivot towards success. As the late Aaliyah said, “If at first, you don’t succeed, dust yourself off and try again.”
Here are six ways to learn and pivot from an entrepreneurial journey gone awry:
Reevaluate Your Business Plan
One of the first steps after experiencing failure is to reevaluate your business plan. Consider pivoting if necessary. Was your product or service not ready for the market? What feedback did you receive? Identify what went wrong and why, then create actionable takeaways you can use in the future. Instead of wallowing in defeat, take constructive steps towards understanding where things went awry. Self-reflection should be part of your quarterly, annual, or semi-annual review.
Set New, Attainable Goals
Setting goals that are smart and attainable is critical. Take a look at what went wrong with the project that failed and understand why it failed. Sometimes our failures are simply viewed as such because of the goals we set. Setting unrealistic goals can set us up for failure. Instead, set specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound goals (SMART goals). For example, if your goal is to achieve 1,000 users, start by collecting enough emails or contact information from your promoted post, build a following or brand awareness that can get you to 1,000 users more easily.
Learn a Valuable Lesson
Failure can be a valuable lesson. After experiencing a setback, take a moment to consider what you can learn from the situation. Did you trust someone without fully vetting them? Did you not have enough money saved for your venture? It is okay to make mistakes, and you can become better because of them. Remember not to make the same mistakes as you move on.
Take on New Skills That Will Take You Farther
Sometimes failure happens because we lack the right skills, or we need to fine-tune our existing skills. Once you’ve realized the areas in which you need to improve or sharpen, use the time to gain more knowledge. Learning new skills only broadens your horizons and can lead to unexpected opportunities.
Discover Your True Intentions and Purpose
Failure has a way of helping us prioritize what truly matters. Take a moment to reflect on what motivates you. Is it chasing money, helping others, serving your community, or something else entirely? Your true purpose may be hidden behind the mask of what you think a successful business looks like.
Encourage Others with Your Story
Sharing your failure story can be overwhelming and anxiety-inducing, but it can also inspire and bring hope to someone struggling with similar issues. The vulnerable moments are where we can learn the most about ourselves and our journeys.
Final Thoughts
As an entrepreneur, taking risks is an integral part of your journey. It’s important to understand that failure is not the end, but an opportunity to learn, pivot, and grow. Don’t be afraid to reevaluate your business plan, set new attainable goals, learn valuable lessons, take on new skills, discover your true intentions and purpose, and encourage others with your story. Remember, failure is what defines you as a risk-taking entrepreneur.